I won't say names, but he's Indian and his name rhymes with Shmosh. A piece of wisdom was given me by a close friend, Bucchi, when my frustration as a counselor got the better of me. He told me that since I spend my time, heart, and energy on helping others, when they don't take it I should write notes on the situation and not waste my time rather than spending so many resources on lost causes. He told me, "When time passes. So as your solution, it just remains as you and your thinking pattern." Considering I've spent almost a year on my current project, this is hearty advice...especially considering those situations are the hardest to turn away. Let's get on with the info.
Who: An Indian male age 26 and an American female
What: Sleeping on a couch together; she enters in nightgown, bra & panties. Strips down to bra & panties. He tells her to put her clothes back on since its cold. She ignores. She lays next to him on the couch and they start getting intimate. He starts fingering her and she playfully whispers "stop." He stops without question and goes to sleep. She wakes up between 5-7 and goes downstairs, not returning to the room.
Where: In the American female's attic room in Gulf Coast, Mississippi. Lots of hippie decorations.
When: Saturday night after a Mardi Gras parade and many drinks.
Why: A year of lies and excuses away, we've yet to find a valid/sound reason why he talks about "pussy" six days out of seven but never takes the opportunity. Who knows if anything he says anymore is the truth.
His answer tonight: "I was scared she would say something like I forced her or she didn't want it."
And here I was going to talk about the movie I saw, "Law Abiding Citizen". Now Jamie Foxx and Gerard Butler aren't nearly as ripped as 300 or Jarhead, but their acting tops both those movies when Jamie Foxx is the lawyer with a wife and kid trying to put in jail a murderer/rapist of Butler's wife and kid...oh and Butler sees everything to makes matters worse. Long story short, his vengeance is to kill everyone, including the judge who let the rapist/killer out after 5 years while the other prisoner got death for involvement.
So the moral is...would you do something like that? Honestly, I couldn't imagine the poor soul to harm my love. A wife and daughter plus rape? I would make sure every living being died a horrible tortuous death until these pieces of my heart were brought to justice in my eyes...the problem with eyes is that every pair is biased...
When I come back, I will personally give him a piece of my mind for being such an idiot and frustrating you so much. Now breath. It isn't worth it.
ReplyDeletemerci mon amour, but he'll most likely be gone by that time.
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